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2012-2013 Regular Season: Surviving Cincy & Steeling For Steelers
 
December 16, 2012  At 2:45 PM CST
By Eric M. Scharf
 
The Dallas Cowboys had appeared unconvincingly regal in their rematch against the Philadelphia Eagles.

"Cowboys Nation" was – once again – in a catch-22. Fans could either be encouraged by what “America’s Team” might continue to do (or they could remain skeptical of anything new).

The Cowboys simply could not afford any further injury – as has been the case for weeks now. One more roster hit could send the organization towards their seemingly annual season-ending surgery (and how).

The Cowboys were on their way to Cincinnati to face the Bengals in their latest round of potential postseason mortality (when they learned of another NFL tragedy). While fans and prognosticators were used to America’s Team dissolving into fluff when required to be mentally tough, expectations went out the windows when circumstances suddenly became emotionally rough.

Fans – most but not all – figured “that was that.” Against a healthier Bengals team, a defensive front four playing to the extreme and former teammates with a vengeful head of steam (the Cowboys were almost certain to fall flat).

Bengal Bungle

"The Tortured Cowboys Fan" – like any appreciative NFL follower – has some fond memories of the Bengals when they were led by the innovative Sam Wyche and the no-huddling Boomer Esiason. The Bengals – since that time – have been downright bipolar.

This year’s Bengals team, however, is young and filled with more promising talent than their fans have seen in quite a while. They have experienced enough success – this year and last season – for their fans to not want to touch that dial (and with pretty good reason).

The Bengals – against the Cowboys – had more than a good chance (to further wipe away their history as the “Bungles” and inch closer to the playoff dance).

The Cowboys – with their inconsistent results and patchwork roster – were supposed to be emotionally spent. They would have been forgiven if they had shown up as a game day imposter, but they got it together towards the end of the game with a perfectly timed offensive bent.

 
 
There would have been no shame in Tony Romo taking a dive – as his offensive line did barely enough to keep him alive – but Romo performed another series of escapist dances just long enough to give his team more chances.

DeMarco Murray did his part with a big score early and – while Dez Bryant’s index finger went from bent to fractured – with his help a rare late victory the Cowboys captured.

The Bengals had their moments – to be clear – but Ryan’s Roughnecks used a five-sack attack to keep them reasonably near (holding them to more field goals and just one touchdown).

 
 
Dallas mustered enough strength – at the end of the game – to avoid a Bengal bungle in the Cincinnati Jungle . . . and make fallen teammate Jerry Brown proud as they left the field (with a 20-19 yield) and headed out of town.

Raggedy From Tragedy

While the Dallas Cowboys continue to mourn over the loss of Jerry Brown, an equally injured and highly determined Pittsburgh Steelers team has come to town.

The Cowboys survived Cincinnati’s spunk, but they will have to steel themselves (showing greater strength against the Steelers to avoid returning to their traditional late-season funk).

Mental and physical toughness on the grid iron, however, comes up rather small to a task inconceivably tall. It takes uncommon courage – for the families and friends of the victims of the past few weeks – to avoid an unimaginably emotional rut in Kansas City, Dallas, and, now, Newtown, Connecticut. Compared to such devastating human loss, succeeding on football Sunday – even with less than your best – should be no harder than underhand toss.

 
 
The once-elegant "human condition" has been downgraded to the "human excuse,” and when it comes to personal accountability and social responsibility, people from all walks of life have been increasingly playing it fast and loose. Josh Brent drank so much juice that – in his inhibited state – he decided against a safer seat in the back of a readily-available caboose. Brent was not the first person nor, sadly, will he be the last to drive drunk and fast (and the avoidable tragedy – by every stretch – still makes those affected want to retch).

There are still others in society who struggle daily to act "normally" – regardless of how they travel or which beverage they use to unravel – and they simply end up functioning horribly. They are sometimes – by coverage-cuffed physicians – only topically diagnosed or mildly medicated (when support should be far more dedicated). They are oftentimes by family and friends underserved (or by society ignored which leaves them dangerously unnerved). Some of these folks – fathers, mothers, sisters, and brothers – are left to fend for themselves, wandering the land (sometimes, even with weapon in hand).

The Tortured Cowboys Fan – in the last edition – made a universally-held statement about careless act abatement:

"Society does not mind if an individual – with no personal responsibilities – wants to jump off a cliff and end it all. As long as no one else is physically affected, that individual can have a ball. If an individual with multiple dependents – family, employees, even teammates – makes a decision that goes well beyond that individual’s personal space, society’s natural inclination is to get in that person's face and demand more protective constitutional amendments."

People talk a good game with personal freedom but – when it comes to responsibility and moderation in our nation – people are increasingly playing dumb. People are responsible for the upbringing of their offspring (from biological to orphans ready to adopt, whether they like it or not). This is contrary to the popular belief – by those who actually could and should be responsible – but would shun such an honor in favor of "societal relief."

If such people showed enough interest in their offspring to teach them just ONE thing – it would be that the right to consume mass quantities of alcohol is pregnant with the potential for a terrible fall (and the right to bear a firearm is only for protection rather than an open invitation to inflict unprovoked harm).

If people cannot or will not take responsibility for their offspring, because – somehow – it is their personal right to be not so bright, then, society will be forced to install a national idiot alarm that lands their offspring on a funny farm. The personal freedom so many people have so fervently prized will continue to collect dust until those freedoms – to teach and to protect – are fully realized (rather than laced with gutless neglect).

People need to find a way to forge a forward-thinking truce – balancing civil liberties with proactive measures (that reasonably respect an individual's own competence, right to self-defense, and even consumption of alcoholic pleasures). Society – otherwise – may continue to gasp for air while wearing a self-made noose.

No one deserves to suffer and be made raggedy from an avoidable, unnatural tragedy. The Tortured Cowboys Fan sends heartfelt condolences in every way (to the families of the innocent children and school staff whose lives were senselessly taken the other day).

Will They Or Won't They?
 
 
Will the Cowboys – merely playing a GAME – show the same strength two weeks in a row (while continuing to mourn and with the weight of their playoff hopes in tow)?

Will a clever bandage allow Bryant’s late-season success to linger despite his now-famous broken finger or will the damage to his digit cause his teammates and Cowboys Nation to fidget?

Will the Cowboys’ offensive line allow Romo to put up a reasonable fight by keeping him upright?

 
 
Will Dez, Jason, and Miles be able to display a sense of style and flair against Troy Palomalu’s big-hittin’ hair? Will Romo and Co. be able to endure James Harrison and the Steelers’ defensive garrison?

Will the continued (and potential season-ending) absence of Jay Ratliff send the Dallas defense over the cliff (or will "the next man up" continue to help the Cowboys get closer to drinking from the postseason cup)? Will Sean Lissemore continue to prove that "Liss is more" (and that he is capable of becoming part of Ryan's core four)?

Will Rob's Roughnecks to a bite out of a banged-up Roethlisberger, or will Big Ben steal a victory in Dallas like a ruthless burglar?

We shall see. We always do.